Healing Emotional Wounds

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Emotional wounds are not as simple as they may sound. When you get your feelings hurt, some may say you should get thicker skin or stop being so sensitive, but emotional wounds go deeper than that.

Emotional wounds impact you the same way a physical wound does. It aches at all times. It can be from a one-time experience or repetitive pain. There is no overnight method or cure to feeling better. It will take time, but it is possible. Healing emotional wounds requires patience with yourself and those around you, as well as the right tools for facing hardships.

What Are Emotional Wounds?

An emotional wound is really whatever it feels like to you. To some people, it might be a breakup or loss of a loved one. For others, it could be something as common as being yelled at by a boss or teacher. Depending on your past and present, how specific experiences make you feel affects what an emotional wound is to you.

Generally, it is a negative impact that causes deep levels of pain. It can be brought on from one experience or myriad. These wounds can be linked-to loved ones, the world, or physical pain or illness.

Even with such intensity, emotional wounds do not show themselves in the obvious ways physical ones do. There is no blood or broken bones. You can even deny it or hide it, but the emotional wound will eventually show itself. Not through a scar, but signs like:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Angry outbursts
  • Lack of joy
  • Isolation
  • Change in mood or personality
  • Changes in appetite and energy levels
  • Trouble sleeping
  • Lowered immunity to health problems
  • Increased use of alcohol or drugs

When you notice these signs, it is essential to recognize the cause. What is the emotional wound or wounds that got you to this point?

How to Heal Emotional Wounds

Recovering from emotional wounds takes just as much attention and time as healing physical wounds. If you had a broken bone, you would rest. You would take care of it and follow the doctor’s orders. You would go to physical therapy and build back the strength you once had. You wouldn’t say that you’re too busy to focus on it this week. You wouldn’t ignore the pain you’re experiencing. Just because emotional wounds don’t come with casts or bandages doesn’t mean they aren’t just as important.

With an emotional wound, you want to take steps that mimic how you treat a physical wound. Assess your pain. Is this something you can handle on your own? Do you need professional help?

What can you control? You may not be able to remove the cause of the pain, but can you ease it? What helps? Do you feel better when around friends and family? How can you manage these symptoms so that it doesn’t get so bad if something happens in the future? You may always have a scar, but the pain doesn’t need to be so intense. With time and practice, you can heal your wound. #1. Make small changes: The first step to improving your quality of life is not to do a 180 right off the bat. Overwhelming yourself is not a good idea. Doing too much at once can set you back. You are rehabbing your emotions, and it takes time. Do small things that improve how you feel. Organize your nightstand or vacuum your room. Having a clearer environment clears your mind. Write down how you feel. It doesn’t need to be pages, just a sentence or two. Do this every day and see what changes over time. #2. Accept the cause: Accept what happened. Yes, you have this wound, but how? You were hurt. It happens, and it is crucial. Accept that it happened, and it hurts. Let yourself feel those emotions. It will hurt. It can be easier to pause your feelings and hope they go away, but letting them out releases some of that tension. Cry, vent, and respect how you feel. Let it happen, and don’t fight it. #3. Be realistic: This will take time. You will have pain. Accepting that helps the recovery process progress. Sometimes your healing will feel like an uphill climb, and other days, it will feel like you rolled down the hill and need to start over. Having bad days is part of healing. Some days you need more rest. Some days you need to cry while other days are better. Accepting that it is a winding road will keep you going when things are tough. #4. Take care of yourself: Do what you can to improve your mood. Experience joy. Do things you enjoy. Remember that this wound is not your whole world. You have plenty of things to be happy about. Watch a sitcom or laugh with friends. Keep a sense of humor. It may seem silly, but laughter offers many healing benefits physically and emotionally. It can increase your pain tolerance, reduce depression and anxiety, decrease agitation. #5. Get help: If your pain feels like too much to handle or face on your own, seek help from a mental health professional. They can guide you on the best practices for facing your unique emotional wound. You will be able to process the pain and your experiences with support and understanding so that you can enjoy all that life has to offer.

Healing your emotional wounds is not as simple as bandaging them up and letting them heal on their own. Similar to the way you would rehab a broken bone, you need to put effort into your recovery. You can’t expect yourself to bounce back from a deep level of pain without processing it. Accept your negative emotions; they are there for a reason. Feel the pain and understand it. Respect how you are reacting so you can move forward. Taking small steps every day to improve your overall well-being may seem slow, but it makes all the difference. Just smiling once more today than yesterday shows improvement. Emotional wounds usually leave scars, but they don’t need to be painful forever. Understanding how to cope improves your life and your outlook. Let us help you recover from your emotional wounds now. Call now at (949) 281-0632 to learn more about how California Care Detox & Treatment can help you.

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